We, the moderators, rarely moderate a post that we haven’t gotten complaints about. Either via the forum’s flag functionality, direct messages on the forums, or via email. We do not act on things that do not violate our guidelines. If there is some confusion as to what guidelines you have violated to cause your post to be actioned, you are welcome to message one of us and we will be happy to answer to the best of our ability.
As for posts that are hidden, these are due to the effected post receiving three or more flags from members of the community. We, the moderators, do not flag posts as we take direct action if we see a violation.
I encourage you to re-read the forum guidelines at your convenience.