Dim f As Xojo.io.folderitem = SpecialFolder.Documents.Child("Roster.sqlite")
Mailcomposeview.addAttachment(f, "application/x-sqlite3", f.name)
Thank you SO VERY MUCH Alberto, Jason T, and Jason K for all your help. And thank you Jason King for all your work on iOSKit. Its really great and a big help. I really appreciate you all taking the time to help.
Apple deliberately prevents you from sending email without the user knowing to prevent an app from sending spam from their email without their knowledge. So you will need to use a service like Jeremie suggests.